Sometimes the skin between the vagina and anus (the perineum) might tear or be cut by a doctor or midwife to allow the baby out. This is called an episiotomy. After having a baby, it's not unusual for women to feel their vagina is more loose or dry than usual, and have perineal pain or pain during sex. Jan 15, - Is cosmetic surgery for vaginas — vaginal rejuvenation — going too far? worried if things will be the same "down there" after having a baby.